When it comes to the subject of discovering, cultivating and strengthening your identity, many people skip a critical experience in the journey: learning to be loved by the Father. In this video, I want to release you of all the performance and achievement pressures you live under to try and find an identity, while learning […]
Tag: Exposing the Rejection Mindset
Spiritual Blocks to the Life of Your Heart – #04 Pride
If you want to live healed and free from your heart in all things, you’ll have to face pride at various stages of your journey. We often call out pride in others, but we are slow to call out pride in ourselves. But the quicker we can identify where pride is blocking or stunting our […]
Understanding Acceptance, Validation, Affirmation and Approval
Everyone has a need to experience love, in the form of acceptance, validation, affirmation and approval. You were designed with a need for these to be filled in your relationship with God. But we often have a hard time experiencing them because our earthly experiences have damaged us and left us empty. Some have asked […]
What I Learned When I Let Go of the Pressure to “Fix” People
You would think it odd to read a title like that coming from me, especially since I am neck deep in the work of helping people to experience transformation. But there is a big difference between equipping people and trying to “fix” them. When I first began to experience some dynamic healing and transformation in […]
S05 Ep10: Death of a Church Lady–A Conversation with Teri Miller
The church lady is dead, and in this week’s episode, I want to share with you how it happened. Teri Miller, the author of “Death of a Church Lady,” shares with me her journey of shedding off what the “church lady” meant to her and encountering truth that allowed her to live free. Teri Miller […]
A Root of Rejection & Mental Health
One of my great passions is to equip believers to live in mental and emotional health. I believe it is important that we heal, grow and experience transformation in a way that strengthens the health of our minds and hearts. This subject hits close to home, as I have had to learn first hand how […]
Is Your Story Hurting Your Progress? (Video)
Everyone lives with a story, an inner narrative that gives an interpretation of your life. That story may be an empowering one, leading you to live as an overcomer. Or that story may be leaving you stuck and filled with limitations. The biblical term for this is testimony. Your testimony is the story of what […]
S05 Ep08: Healing Rejection in Your Relationships
If you look at all your relationship frustrations, there are usually themes that keep repeating over and over. They become the irritants that you find yourself venting about. You may find yourself saying, “Why is it that ________ always keeps happening?” The problem is that when a rejection mindsets gets a hold of hurt in […]
7 Signs of Performance Based Christianity
It has been incredibly helpful and freeing for me to identify how I lived a performance based life with God and my world around me. In this video, I quickly show you seven common signs of performance based Christianity, so you can identify it and begin walking into freedom. A major virus is infecting the […]
S05 Ep06: Are You Living in Performance Based Christianity?
Is your relationship with Christ one based on your performance? Have you been taught a performance based form of Christianity? Are you promoting performance based Christianity in your church without even knowing it? Are you in a culture that promotes performance based Christianity? In this episode, we take a sober look at how performance based […]