Have you ever had a “shame attack” and did not even know it? Today I want to bring insight into the deepest root issue in our healing journey–abandonment. Most of the roads of our brokenness lead to abandonment. And when shame and abandonment connect, it can trigger a chain reaction with our hearts that can […]
Exposing the Rejection Mindset
Do You Compulsively Overshare?
Do you find yourself sharing too much too soon too often? If so, you are not alone, as many believers admit to over talking, over sharing and even over confessing. For many, it can even become a compulsive way of relating. You feel you need to get everything out to make sure you are ok […]
Top 12 Reasons People Do NOT Empathize with You
Do you find it challenging to experience empathy from others when you share your journey? Today I want to look into the lack of empathy you may be experiencing by addressing a question that was recently sent in while also sharing with you twelve reasons people do not effectively empathize with you. Video Broadcast: Recommended […]
Mind Reading What Other People Think About You
What is your mind reading habit in relationships? I am not talking about some form of telepathic power, but the relationship practice of reading what someone thinks about you. In life, you and I carry a relationship “filter,” a way by which we process relaitonships and get a “read” on other people. You and I […]
Identity Discovery: Start with Learning to be Loved by the Father
When it comes to the subject of discovering, cultivating and strengthening your identity, many people skip a critical experience in the journey: learning to be loved by the Father. In this video, I want to release you of all the performance and achievement pressures you live under to try and find an identity, while learning […]
Healing Your Father Wounds
Many struggle to receive the beauty of God’s love for them. The reality is, the father wounds they carry prevent them from connecting God as a Father. As you move yourself towards the root system of heart healing, there are some important questions you’ll need to address. They may be challenging to consider, yet they […]
Allowing God to Heal Stubbornness in Your Life
Are you open to allowing God to address and heal stubbornness in your heart? We all have stubborn areas that God can heal. I find that in the heart healing journey, He has dealt with the issue of stubbornness in many layers in my life. It can be painful at first, but the breakthrough and […]
7 Ways to Overcome Your People Pleasing Battles
My entry into people pleasing temptations began early in life. But I specifically remember the vortex of trying to make people happy pulling on me when I entered into pastoral leadership. Any pastor can tell you that the demand to people please in ministry can be intense. For most, it eats them alive. A small […]
12 Signs You Live with a Victim Mentality
The victim mentality is deeply rooted and connected to the rejection mindset. They work together to keep you underneath the limitations that you bump up against. Victim thinking is rejection’s foot solider to keep you from seeing any picture of freedom for yourself. It is always seeking to keep you underneath the lid of limitation. […]
5 Deadly Consequences of Remaining in Spiritual Slavery
One of the most challenging assignments in transformational ministry is the process of equipping people to live as sons and daughters, free from the bondage of spiritual slavery. Even though Jesus Christ provided a way for us to be the Father’s sons, many Christians still tolerate a lifestyle of spiritual slavery. It keeps them […]