Everyone has a need to experience love, in the form of acceptance, validation, affirmation and approval. You were designed with a need for these to be filled in your relationship with God. But we often have a hard time experiencing them because our earthly experiences have damaged us and left us empty. Some have asked […]
The church lady is dead, and in this week’s episode, I want to share with you how it happened. Teri Miller, the author of “Death of a Church Lady,” shares with me her journey of shedding off what the “church lady” meant to her and encountering truth that allowed her to live free. Teri Miller […]
The pain of being ignored, overlooked or neglected can one of the most challenging wounds to overcome. When someone is ignored continually in their life, it is deeply painful with unrelenting torment. Masses of people have the experience of being ignored. Are you one of them? Do you anticipate that people will ignore you, overlook […]
One of my great passions is to equip believers to live in mental and emotional health. I believe it is important that we heal, grow and experience transformation in a way that strengthens the health of our minds and hearts. This subject hits close to home, as I have had to learn first hand how […]
Everyone lives with a story, an inner narrative that gives an interpretation of your life. That story may be an empowering one, leading you to live as an overcomer. Or that story may be leaving you stuck and filled with limitations. The biblical term for this is testimony. Your testimony is the story of what […]
If you look at all your relationship frustrations, there are usually themes that keep repeating over and over. They become the irritants that you find yourself venting about. You may find yourself saying, “Why is it that ________ always keeps happening?” The problem is that when a rejection mindsets gets a hold of hurt in […]
One of the greatest ways healing can be experienced in families is when we are able to uproot rejection in our generations. In this week’s episode, I had the opportunity to talk with Twaambo Kapilikisha, regarding the book Exposing the Rejection Mindset, and how the message has made a difference in her life. I had […]
Follow the trail of performance based Christianity and you find two factors that have greatly influenced it: your upbringing in the home and your introduction to becoming a Christian. When raised in a home that is performance driven, you are given love and attention when you achieve. There is little to no reference that gets […]
It has been incredibly helpful and freeing for me to identify how I lived a performance based life with God and my world around me. In this video, I quickly show you seven common signs of performance based Christianity, so you can identify it and begin walking into freedom. A major virus is infecting the […]
Is your relationship with Christ one based on your performance? Have you been taught a performance based form of Christianity? Are you promoting performance based Christianity in your church without even knowing it? Are you in a culture that promotes performance based Christianity? In this episode, we take a sober look at how performance based […]