Performance based Christianity is a counterfeit religious virus that has infected the masses like a plague over the generations. Its contagious effect has infiltrated many church cultures and has kept well-meaning Christians from resting and living in the grace and love of God. If you dissect most problems Christians are facing, performance based living […]
Exposing the Rejection Mindset
S05 Ep05: Are You in an Identity Crisis?
We need to address the identity crisis going on today, where people are manifesting many symptoms of losing who they are or never knowing who they are to begin with. Melissa and I both talk about 7 signs that you may be in an identity crisis, while also sharing about what to do about it. […]
How to Stop Obsessing on What People Think About You
When someone declares, “I Don’t Care What People Think,” they are often lying. Either they’re not being truthful with themselves or they are disconnected from their relational world. There is a lot of tough talk in the world, where people like to yell with a megaphone that they don’t care what people think. The louder […]
What’s Your Relationship Filter?
Could it be possible that your relationship filter is killing your relationship potential? Everyone has a relationship filter that we carry into our interactions. We don’t hear what is actually being said, we hear what our filter picks up. Your history of relationship interactions and how you have processed them influences what your relationship filter […]
S05 Ep04: Is Insecurity Getting in the Way?
All of us have insecurities. The question is, “what will we do with them?” Will insecurity hide underneath the surface, or will you take the opportunity to let God grow you in the midst of those insecure areas of your life? The fact is that insecurity cannot remain underground. They will eventually rise up and […]
10 Things to Do When You Feel “Stuck”
There’s nothing more discouraging than feeling stuck in your life. It’s a place where the enemy would love to see you locked down, where you lose your sense of movement and progress. When that happens, you can easily slide into a posture of victimhood. Those with a victim mindset come into agreement that in life, […]
S05 Ep03: Why Do I Struggle to Receive God’s Love?
Ask any Christ following believer, “Does God love you?” and the overwhelming majority would say, “yes, of course He does.” But the honest reality is that so many believe that in their minds but struggle to experience that in their hearts. Over the years, the greatest struggle we have witnessed in the lives of Christians […]
Love, Identity and the War Over Them (What is a Rejection Mindset?)
We live in a war over what love means and what identity means. In your life, everything comes down to knowing you are loved and walking confidently in who you are. But you must realize there is an all out war over you walking powerfully in them both. One of the deepest assaults over this […]
S05 Ep02: Getting to the Root of Your Battlegrounds
We often spend a lot of time and energy chasing symptoms, exhausting ourselves, when we have the opportunity in life to get to the root system of the battle. Could it be that you haven’t experienced freedom because you have not had the chance to get to the root issue? In this week’s episode, we […]
S05 Ep01: Do You Have a Rejection Mindset?
All transformation begins with restoring the power of God’s love in your life and building who you are in your identity. But you need to know there is an enemy that resists you experiencing that. It’s call rejection. We want to begin this season helping you to understanding, discern and expose the rejection mindset. A […]