Available in paperback, audio and digital format. Get your copy today! Break free by exposing the lies of a rejection mindset. Everyone experiences rejection in their life, but few are equipped to overthrow a rejection mindset. Meanwhile, masses of hearts are held back from experiencing the fullness of love in their relationships while being held […]
One of the top heart aches I witness in the lives of believers is the struggle to feel connected to God. In just about every scenario, I find rejection at work behind the scenes to keep people bound in this frustration. Everybody experiences this difficulty at some point in their life. Those who say they […]
Experiencing rejection is incredibly painful. Yet there is nothing more deadly to relational health carrying a rejection mindset. Masses of people do not realizing they are infected. Meanwhile, a it is behind just about every relationship breakdown and the drama that ensues. It’s important for you to understand that rejection is not just something that […]
The lights are on but no one’s home. I am concerned when I look into the eyes of many in this generation. There is this glaze; at time a numbness, showing signs of disconnect from a healthy heart life. The detached heart is an inability to emotionally connect to God or to others. With a detached […]
Everyone is born with questions that need to be answered in a healthy manner. When these questions are not answered in a healthy and solid manner, a rejection mindset forms within us. These two questions are: Who am I? and Who loves me? Safety and Security Love addresses our sense of safety. Do you feel loved […]
During a personal awakening in my life, I was serving in a pastoral role at a fairly large church. I knew I was in desperate need for transformation, as my lack of peace was at an all time high. I also saw that most believers were in similar places. Unfortunately, they continued to jump on […]
Experiencing rejection is incredibly painful. Yet there is nothing more deadly to relational health than when we carry a rejection mindset. Masses of people do not even realize they are infected with it. Meanwhile, a rejection mindset is behind just about every relationship breakdown and the drama that ensues. Rejection is a Mindset It’s important […]
Relationships only thrive within the exchange of mutual love. But if someone loves you more than you love yourself, there is a change you may end up engaging relationship sabotage. It can be easy to find reasons why you don’t like the person and then do things that contribute to the dissolving of the relationship. It’s common rut to find reasons why people […]
Over the years, I have encouraged people to face their insecurity with courage by becoming mindful of some specific mindsets. To detox from the insecurity that holds us back, here is what I have found to be helpful. 1. Stop Defending Your Insecurity We are all in process. The quicker we can admit to this, […]
When did you find out who you really are? If so, who was the person most responsible for communicating that to you? Most honest people have no answer to this question. That is because identity is meant to be spoken, confirmed and validated from those in our tribe. It should begin with our parents and […]