One of the greatest core struggles manifesting today is the lack of identity. Missing from the heart’s of people is a true confidence in knowing who they are and what makes them unique in this world to make a difference. God has given each of us a powerful identity, but it is very rare to […]
Many often say the words, “Just be yourself.” But most people do not even know what that means or what it looks like. We have spent our lives trying to be someone else or trying to be someone that others expected us to be. In addition, we serve a lot of ways of thinking, where we […]
Over the years, I have encouraged people to face their insecurity with courage by becoming mindful of some specific mindsets. To detox from the insecurity that holds us back, here is what I have found to be helpful. 1. Stop Defending Your Insecurity We are all in process. The quicker we can admit to this, […]
For those overwhelmed at times by their own insecurity, you are in good company. This struggle is a world-wide plague. Even those you may admire have areas they wrestle with. Trust me, they do. The main differentiation is between those who recognize their need for healing and those who cover it up. The second party […]
When did you find out who you really are? If so, who was the person most responsible for communicating that to you? Most honest people have no answer to this question. That is because identity is meant to be spoken, confirmed and validated from those in our tribe. It should begin with our parents and […]
I got nothing done today! Ever said that? Did it bother you deeply? Why is that? Why is this such an important issue for us to feel productive? Of course its great to have that feeling that you accomplished something. It feeds into our sense of purpose. But the modern world loves productivity, to […]
Jesus knew the love of the Father and experienced the foundational love that every believer should encounter regularly. In the Gospels, we can find the account of Jesus experiencing His Heavenly Father’s love. This was imperative for Him, as He was to begin His earthly ministry on the planet. When all the people were baptized, […]
People pleasing is a monster that will base your sense of well being on how you think everyone feels about you. Its an impossible way of thinking and living, but millions are bound by this pattern. People pleasing is a rejection-based way of thinking. It trains you to fill your lack of self-esteem and self-worth […]
A rejection mindset is something we will all have to face in our lives, especially because it will infect how we process relationship. The following is a “Rejection Detection” quiz that will help you to understand how rejection may be affecting your thoughts, feelings and perspectives. If you answer yes to at least one of […]
The following is a prayer that you can pray out loud to help establish your identity in a stronger way: Father, I come to you in Jesus name and I thank You the identity that You have given me. I thank You for Your Son, Jesus Christ, and the identity I can have in Him. […]