If you want to live from a heart that is healed and free, you will need to learn the power of forgiveness. In fact, you will need to learn what it means to forgive every day of your life. But we often overlook the subject of forgiveness. Yet it may be one of the most […]
Tag: Bitterness
The Negative Effects of Judgmentalism
One of the deadly effects of toxic relationship patterns is that we can end up releasing words of judgment over people that have wronged us in some way, as a retaliatory response. Out of a place of hurt, we say things about others that are judge the other person’s motives and slander who they are. […]
Why is it So Hard to Forgive?
Forgiveness is one of the most foundational, yet often under-practiced habits in life. Without forgiveness, we’d never experience intimate relationship with God and healthy relationships with others. Our health and wholeness depend on our ability to forgive, yet when you look at the landscape of our world, it seems that people all around are manifesting the […]
The Challenge of Living Bitter Free
When I wrote the book Bitter Free in 2015, it was not from a place of theory or book knowledge. Little did I know in 2004 when I went all in for personal healing and transformation, that I would be challenged to the core relationaly. When Jesus said in the last days hatred would […]
How to Have a Good Argument
Most people hate conflict and many avoid it at all costs. But quality relationships are often forged when difficult conversations are had, and the relationship comes out stronger on the other end. I have found sometimes it means having a good old argument to shake the relationship to where it needs to go. Unfortunately, the idea […]
3 Things to Do to Prepare for the Days Ahead
In watching many believers, they don’t seem to be ready for what is coming. Now please understand, I am not a doom and gloom guy by any means. But I do recognize turbulence seems to be increasing in these days. Resistance to the Kingdom of God is intensifying, and it will not be long before being […]
10 Reasons Why You Need to Learn to Live More Bitter Free
Let me tell you why addressing the subject of forgiveness, bitterness and anger is so critical to your everyday life—and why you need to keep reading. Allow me to share with you some important reasons as to why you and I need to learn to live a more bitter-free life. 1. We all deal with being […]
What Your Anger Says About You
Everyone faces the issue of anger in their life; whether its anger that lashes out at someone, anger that is pent up inside or anger you wear on your face. Unresolved anger can become a very deadly poison in a person’s life. It can rob them of peace, healthy relationships and can be a leading […]
Do You Have a Rejection Mindset?
A rejection mindset is something we will all have to face in our lives, especially because it will infect how we process relationship. The following is a “Rejection Detection” quiz that will help you to understand how rejection may be affecting your thoughts, feelings and perspectives. If you answer yes to at least one of […]
Getting to the Root of Your Anger Battle
Idolatry is a significant battle for all human beings, especially because we were intentionally designed to be extravagant worshippers. The problem is not whether or not we will worship – we do that by default. The issue is “What will we set our affection, attention and devotion to in our daily walk to receive healing, […]