What does it look like in day to day life to work through people pleasing struggles? Melissa and I take some time to give examples of how people pleasing has impacted our journey and preventing us from experiencing greater mental and emotional health. We talk through some of the factors in our upbringing that contributed […]
In order to break through patterns of people pleasing, we have to learn how to help the heart of a people pleaser to experience healing and find new directions that are healthy and empowered. Today my purpose is to look at your heart and equip you to walk away from the trap of pleasing and […]
To break free from people pleasing, we have to become self-aware and discern its patterns in our life. What does the life of a people pleaser look like and why do so many get trapped underneath this bondage? in this broadcast teaching, I will share about patterns of people pleasing so that you can discern […]
My entry into people pleasing temptations began early in life. But I specifically remember the vortex of trying to make people happy pulling on me when I entered into pastoral leadership. Any pastor can tell you that the demand to people please in ministry can be intense. For most, it eats them alive. A small […]
When someone declares, “I Don’t Care What People Think,” they are often lying. Either they’re not being truthful with themselves or they are disconnected from their relational world. There is a lot of tough talk in the world, where people like to yell with a megaphone that they don’t care what people think. The louder […]
When people loudly proclaim they don’t care what other people think, they are often lying. It takes some work to not allow the pulse of what certain people think to affect you. Hear a nasty comment or receive some rude feedback and most will mull about it for some time. Preachers can declare, “I don’t […]
Is people pleasing eating away at your life? People pleasing is the practice of doing things to keep others happy, without consideration of your desire and choice. Many people live in bondage to people pleasing, but they don’t see it as an unhealthy thing. They think they are doing God’s work, when in reality they […]
People pleasing is a monster that will base your sense of well being on how you think everyone feels about you. Its an impossible way of thinking and living, but millions are bound by this pattern. People pleasing is a rejection-based way of thinking. It trains you to fill your lack of self-esteem and self-worth […]