When loving yourself is not presence, self-hatred takes residence to keep us from engaging love. Breaking free from self-hate has been such a liberating experience, but it takes some honest discernment to understand how it prevents you from experiencing love. One of the best ways you can break through into loving yourself the way that God loves you is to break any agreements with self-hatred’s deception.

For so long, I would respond to discouragement with emotional spirals, where they became unproductive times of victim thinking and pity. Meanwhile, I would just remain stuck. Yet in learning to love myself, I discovered the power of loving myself through the pain and into what is possible.

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Is your marriage struggling to be what it can be? Many times our ability to communicate powerfully can hold us back form the intimacy that is possible.

If a married couple doesn’t know how to communicate effectively, then overtime, the relationship becomes more like roommates. True, honest and vulnerable communication can lead to amazing intimacy in the marriage. Here are a number of things we have learned in our marriage and the marriages we have helped over the years.

One of the biggest questions I get is “how do I practically process my pain with God?” Many people are recognizing their unhealthy ways of dealing with pain. They just need some direction. This video gets into the process of working this out with God in a fruitful way.

 

If you want to live with a healthy spiritual and emotional heart, you have to adjust your response to pain. How we deal with pain in our lives will determine our overall wholeness in the future.

Pain is that not given to God for healing will often come out in our addictions. There are usually two unhealthy responses to pain that we often fall into. These extremes keep us from living healthy. The first is denial, stuffing and ignoring. The other extreme is victim thinking and self-pity. Both are unhealthy and need to be adjusted, so we can authentically experience heart healing.

For more insights, check out my Healing the Heart online training course.

In order to experience the healing our hearts need, we have to understand who God is as we approach Him. This video will give some keys insights into who God is and who you are in the process of receiving heart healing.

I believe the season we live in is calling for a rise of the overcomers like never before. So many believers feel they have their back against the wall, yet rising up with a new tenacity is available. This is a call to people who desire to live as overcomers in their generations.