Three Needs Only the Father Can Fulfill

Jesus knew the love of the Father and experienced the foundational love that every believer should encounter regularly. In the Gospels, we can find the account of Jesus experiencing His Heavenly Father’s love. This was imperative for Him, as He was to begin His earthly ministry on the planet.

When all the people were baptized, it came to pass that Jesus also was baptized; and while He prayed, the heaven was opened. And the Holy Spirit descended in bodily form like a dove upon Him, and a voice came from heaven which said, “You are My beloved Son; in You I am well pleased.
” (Luke 3:21–22)

As Jesus arose from the water, Father God decides He is going to speak.

It important to know there are only three times we specifically read Father God speak in the record of the Gospels. Two of the three times, we see Him say what we read here in this account.

The Father of all creation makes the decision to manifest His voice.

With this utterance, He doesn’t talk about the majesty of His greatness or echo the earth about His works. He takes the opportunity to brag about His Son.

In Father God’s expression about His Son, Jesus, there are three main components that are established.

These are the needs that all people carry in their hearts.

1. The Father’s Love

At the core of every human being lies the need to know the love of their Heavenly Father. “This is my beloved” or we could say, “dearly loved Son.”

Receiving that love of the father puts a stamp of security upon us. If Jesus was going to walk confidently and carry the love of God to humanity, He needed that love from the Father to be established in His heart. Receiving that love of the father puts a stamp of security upon us. Notice in this Scripture that the love was expressed through words spoken. Jesus needed to hear His Father speak love to Him.

It is time we stop playing the tough person and recognize we need love restored. Some people have lived thinking that it was not that important to hear they were loved. But when love is not spoken and expressed to us, it imbeds a reference within that love does not need to be expressed.

This is why many will say, “My parents didn’t tell me that they loved me, but I know they loved me.” It shows that our references for love are skewed and damaged. We then end up reproducing the empty love we experienced.

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2. The Father’s Affirmation of Our Identity

When God said “You are My beloved Son,” He was affirming the identity of Jesus through declaration.
The Father communicated His love for His Son and spoke His identity. At the end of the day, He was Father God’s Son.

As evidenced throughout the Gospels, Jesus walked with a deep security in His identity as the Father’s Son. He never crumbled in insecurity. He never doubted His own actions and He never lacked authority in His identity. He didn’t waver in being able to give out love. He was affirmed by His Father in who He was and is as the Son of God. The Father communicated His love for His Son and spoke His identity. This is my dearly loved son!

3. The Father’s Approval

In You I am well pleased. Every human being on the face of the earth desires to be affirmed and validated. The greatest level of approval comes when we are affirmed in who we are, not just in what we do.

We have to remember, in this biblical encounter, Jesus had not begun His public ministry yet. He had not cast out any demons; He didn’t heal anyone; His recorded miracles did not take place yet and His ministry had not yet begun.

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This is because in the Kingdom of God, approval is given at the beginning. God’s approval is designed to be given at the beginning, so that we do not have to spend our lives trying to earn His approval.

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If Jesus did not receive the foundational approval from His Heavenly Father at the beginning of His ministry, then He would have been vulnerable to the opinions, approval and affirmation of people. Being affirmed by the Father gave Him the foundation from that point on to clearly hear what the Father was saying and do what the Father was doing.

The key here is that if Jesus Christ, who lived a perfect life on this planet, needed His Father’s love and approval, you and I as sons and daughters of God also do! In order for us for us to experience this love, we will need to address the hinderances that have kept us from it.

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We will need to uncover the areas of bondage that have entered as a result of not knowing the Father’s love, identity and approval. A major part of this process will involve recognizing where human beings in our lives have not represented the heart and love of God in our lives.

Question: Which of the three areas do you relate to the most? (Comment below) 

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Mark DeJesus has served as an experienced communicator since the 1990s. As a teacher, author, transformational consultant and radio host, Mark is deeply passionate about awakening hearts and equipping people towards personal transformation. He is gifted in helping people address the core issues that become limitations to their God given identity and destiny. He is the author of numerous books and hundreds of teachings. Mark and his wife host a weekly online show called Transformed You and he writes at markdejesus.com. His articles have been featured on sites like CharismaMag.com and Patheos.com. Mark and his wife Melissa enjoy each other and their precious children Maximus and Abigail.

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  • Cyndy Bezz

    So what do you once you realize that you need love restored? How do you pinpoint and get rid of what’s blocking receiving that love from the Father?

    • Great question Cyndy. Two things I would suggest: one is to read through the free Ebook on Experiencing the Love of God, which can be accessed through the mailing list sign up form that pops up. I also cover this subject in more detail in Exposing the Rejection Mindset book. Best thing to do is in prayer, ask God to reveal what is hindering us from that love. He will be faithful to reveal it!