A Call for Relationship Healing

Addressing Our Brokenness that Sabotages Effectiveness

Relationship Healing

God is in the business of healing and restoring our relationships like never before. The struggles we all face show us that we need to grow deeper in love and stronger in who we are. God is a Father, so His highest priority is to mature the identity of His sons and daughters. The manifestation […]

The Relationship and Identity Destroyer: The Rejection Mindset

Confront the Main Block to All Relationship Health and Freedom

Rejection Mindset, Rejection

Experiencing rejection is incredibly painful. Yet there is nothing more deadly to relational health than when we carry a rejection mindset. Masses of people do not even realize they are infected with it. Meanwhile, a rejection mindset is behind just about every relationship breakdown and the drama that ensues. Rejection is a Mindset It’s important […]

10 Toxic Stages of Performance Based Christianity

Are You Stuck in the Performance Hamster Wheel?

Performance Based Christianity Hamster Wheel

Getting free of performance based Christianity will revolutionize your life, but I have found that many people need to untangle themselves from the cycle that this kind of living produces. Unfortunately, the toxic thread of performance has woven itself into every almost every fabric of people’s lives. Getting free is possible and life changing, but it takes intentional […]

Stop Self-Rejection and Begin Loving Yourself

Loving and Accepting Yourself as God's Creation

Accepting Yourself, Loving Yourself, Freedom from Self-Rejection

Many have asked me in response to reading my material, “What do I do about the self-rejection patterns in my life?” This section will give the keys needed to break out of self-rejection and love yourself as God’s creation. Ignoring Your Heart Health is Not Spiritual While it might seem like you are being “selfless” […]

Self-Rejection and Relationship Sabotage

When People Love You More than You Love Yourself

Relationship Sabotage, Self-Rejection

Relationships only thrive within the exchange of mutual love. But if someone loves you more than you love yourself, there is a change you may end up engaging relationship sabotage. It can be easy to find reasons why you don’t like the person and then do things that contribute to the dissolving of the relationship. It’s common rut to find reasons why people […]

#149: A Leader’s Heart: An Interview with David Tensen

Living from a Heart that Experiences Healing

David Tensen

I am passionate meeting people who have a high value for heart health and genuine interaction. So many leaders today are just about the bottom line of achievement without the priority of heart connected living. I am passionate about finding people who are effectively helping people experience transformation and have a value for vulnerable interaction.  […]

It’s False Humility If You Are Rejecting Yourself

Exposing False Humility

Humility is the highway for spiritual growth, but too many counterfeits are in action. In fact, there is a false humility on the lose that is giving people the wrong model of what it looks like to walk in true humility. Real humility is not something you can fabricate. It only comes through an authentic […]

Self Rejection: When Did It Become OK to Not Like Yourself?

Signs of Self-Rejection and How It Has Become so Commonly Accepted

Spend 10 minutes with a group of toddlers or elementary school children and you will find two common threads in their lives—a lot of energy and a great desire to be someone when they grow up. Instilled in our young sons and daughters is an endless list of options they dream of stepping into someday, […]

#148: Safe Ways to Get Help for Heart Healing

3 Stages that are Important for Your Own Transformation Journey

The need for heart healing is massive, but many in the body of Christ are slow to recognize how brokenness is influencing their thoughts, relationships and behaviors. In fact, so many are slow to even realize they are broken. Even though healing of the heart is foundational to the Gospel, very few people even know […]

3 Key Decisions Overcomers Make

You are Key Decisions Away from Everything Changing

Moving from status-quo living to overcoming often comes down to simple decisions. We are often a few strong decisions away form everything changing in our lives. The overcoming heart sees every situation in their life as an opportunity to overcome. In order to develop this mindset, there are some foundational decisions we need to establish […]