When You Feel Far from God

Exposing Rejection's Biggest List of Lies

Feeling Far from God

One of the top heart aches I witness in the lives of believers is the struggle to feel connected to God. In just about every scenario, I find rejection at work behind the scenes to keep people bound in this frustration. Everybody experiences this difficulty at some point in their life. Those who say they […]

What is a Rejection Mindset?

Here are Signs You Have it In Your Life

rejection, rejection mindset

Experiencing rejection is incredibly painful. Yet there is nothing more deadly to relational health carrying a rejection mindset. Masses of people do not realizing they are infected. Meanwhile, a it is behind just about every relationship breakdown and the drama that ensues. It’s important for you to understand that rejection is not just something that […]

Healing The Detached Heart

Awakening the Disconnect in our Hearts

Heart, Detached Heart

The lights are on but no one’s home. I am concerned when I look into the eyes of many in this generation. There is this glaze; at time a numbness, showing signs of disconnect from a healthy heart life. The detached heart is an inability to emotionally connect to God or to others. With a detached […]

The Two Biggest Questions You Carry in Your Heart

The Two Issues that a Rejection Mindset Attacks

Heart, Questions

Everyone is born with questions that need to be answered in a healthy manner. When these questions are not answered in a healthy and solid manner, a rejection mindset forms within us. These two questions are: Who am I? and Who loves me? Safety and Security Love addresses our sense of safety. Do you feel loved […]

The Day I Saw the Rejection Mindset

Since Then I Have Never Been the Same

Rejection, Rejection Mindset

During a personal awakening in my life, I was serving in a pastoral role at a fairly large church. I knew I was in desperate need for transformation, as my lack of peace was at an all time high. I also saw that most believers were in similar places. Unfortunately, they continued to jump on […]

The Relationship and Identity Destroyer: The Rejection Mindset

Confront the Main Block to All Relationship Health and Freedom

Rejection Mindset, Rejection

Experiencing rejection is incredibly painful. Yet there is nothing more deadly to relational health than when we carry a rejection mindset. Masses of people do not even realize they are infected with it. Meanwhile, a rejection mindset is behind just about every relationship breakdown and the drama that ensues. Rejection is a Mindset It’s important […]

10 Toxic Stages of Performance Based Christianity

Are You Stuck in the Performance Hamster Wheel?

Performance Based Christianity Hamster Wheel

Getting free of performance based Christianity will revolutionize your life, but I have found that many people need to untangle themselves from the cycle that this kind of living produces. Unfortunately, the toxic thread of performance has woven itself into every almost every fabric of people’s lives. Getting free is possible and life changing, but it takes intentional […]

Stop Self-Rejection and Begin Loving Yourself

Loving and Accepting Yourself as God's Creation

Accepting Yourself, Loving Yourself, Freedom from Self-Rejection

Many have asked me in response to reading my material, “What do I do about the self-rejection patterns in my life?” This section will give the keys needed to break out of self-rejection and love yourself as God’s creation. Ignoring Your Heart Health is Not Spiritual While it might seem like you are being “selfless” […]

Self-Rejection and Relationship Sabotage

When People Love You More than You Love Yourself

Relationship Sabotage, Self-Rejection

Relationships only thrive within the exchange of mutual love. But if someone loves you more than you love yourself, there is a change you may end up engaging relationship sabotage. It can be easy to find reasons why you don’t like the person and then do things that contribute to the dissolving of the relationship. It’s common rut to find reasons why people […]

Self Rejection: When Did It Become OK to Not Like Yourself?

Signs of Self-Rejection and How It Has Become so Commonly Accepted

Spend 10 minutes with a group of toddlers or elementary school children and you will find two common threads in their lives—a lot of energy and a great desire to be someone when they grow up. Instilled in our young sons and daughters is an endless list of options they dream of stepping into someday, […]