If you want to live with a healthy spiritual and emotional heart, you have to adjust your response to pain. How we deal with pain in our lives will determine our overall wholeness in the future.

Pain is that not given to God for healing will often come out in our addictions. There are usually two unhealthy responses to pain that we often fall into. These extremes keep us from living healthy. The first is denial, stuffing and ignoring. The other extreme is victim thinking and self-pity. Both are unhealthy and need to be adjusted, so we can authentically experience heart healing.

For more insights, check out my Healing the Heart online training course.

What does it take to heal a broken heart? Everyone has areas of brokenness that need healing, but how do we go about it? In this video I will share with you 10 steps that we can engage to experience the healing our hearts need.

#165: What to Do With My Emotions

Do I Ignore Them or Feed Them?

Emotions

Ask ten Christians about how we should deal with our emotions. Most likely you will get ten different answers from all kinds of perspectives. The reality is, we have not been trained in a healthy and biblical ways about how to approach the subject of emotions. So then we don’t know what to do with […]

“Watching Over Your Heart”
by Mark DeJesus

Watching Over Your Heart

What does it mean to watch over your heart or to guard your heart, in a way that supports your journey of breakthrough and overcoming? Based on Proverbs 4, this message will encourage and equip you with keys that you can begin applying today.

Included in this message are the following insights:

  • What guarding your heart actually means.
  • Includes 3 powerful ways to watch over your heart.

#164: Do Christians Need More Emotional Intelligence?

Cultivating Emotionally Healthy Christians

Emotional Intelligence

When measuring someone’s intelligence, the term IQ is used. Yet in the past 50 years, there has become a growing awareness of a measurement called “emotional intelligence” or EQ. The need and value of it is being recognized in more and more avenues. Our modern day interactions and lack of quality relationships are revealing a […]

Healing The Detached Heart

Awakening the Disconnect in our Hearts

Heart, Detached Heart

The lights are on but no one’s home. I am concerned when I look into the eyes of many in this generation. There is this glaze; at time a numbness, showing signs of disconnect from a healthy heart life. The detached heart is an inability to emotionally connect to God or to others. With a detached […]

#149: A Leader’s Heart: An Interview with David Tensen

Living from a Heart that Experiences Healing

David Tensen

I am passionate meeting people who have a high value for heart health and genuine interaction. So many leaders today are just about the bottom line of achievement without the priority of heart connected living. I am passionate about finding people who are effectively helping people experience transformation and have a value for vulnerable interaction.  […]

#148: Safe Ways to Get Help for Heart Healing

3 Stages that are Important for Your Own Transformation Journey

The need for heart healing is massive, but many in the body of Christ are slow to recognize how brokenness is influencing their thoughts, relationships and behaviors. In fact, so many are slow to even realize they are broken. Even though healing of the heart is foundational to the Gospel, very few people even know […]

#147: Healing the Heart of a Woman

Engaging the Process of Healing to Your Heart

God created us male and female with our own unique design, needs and strengths. Men and women have needs that are common to each other, yet there are areas that are very unique to a woman’s heart. Over the years, there has been much confusion as to what it means to be a man of […]

#146: Helping Men Experience Heart Healing

What Works Against Him and How to Move into Freedom

When the subject of heart healing is brought to the table, females will more than likely listen in quickly and embrace the process of spiritual and emotional heart healing. But why is it that so many men struggle dealing with pain, emotions or issues of the heart? Why is it than a large percentage of […]