If you want to live from a heart that is healed and free, you will need to learn the power of forgiveness. In fact, you will need to learn what it means to forgive every day of your life. But we often overlook the subject of forgiveness. Yet it may be one of the most […]
Bitter Free
The One Thing I Wish Everyone Could Understand About Past Relationships
Everyone has relationships that don’t work out for the long haul and relational pain that came out of those connections. In my journey of growing and helping others experience transformation, I have found that so many people carry deep relationship frustration; combustion that turns into deep resentment and bitterness. The Missing Ingredient Yet over and […]
10 Signs You Operate as a Hater
I am deeply concerned that in the current tension of world events and election cycles, people do not know how to have relationship with each other. Our interactions seem to become more intense, very reactionary and without much self-control. It’s like we forgot how to talk with each other. Actually, I’m not sure we ever […]
The Negative Effects of Judgmentalism
One of the deadly effects of toxic relationship patterns is that we can end up releasing words of judgment over people that have wronged us in some way, as a retaliatory response. Out of a place of hurt, we say things about others that are judge the other person’s motives and slander who they are. […]
The Challenge of Living Bitter Free
When I wrote the book Bitter Free in 2015, it was not from a place of theory or book knowledge. Little did I know in 2004 when I went all in for personal healing and transformation, that I would be challenged to the core relationaly. When Jesus said in the last days hatred would […]
How to Have a Good Argument
Most people hate conflict and many avoid it at all costs. But quality relationships are often forged when difficult conversations are had, and the relationship comes out stronger on the other end. I have found sometimes it means having a good old argument to shake the relationship to where it needs to go. Unfortunately, the idea […]
10 Reasons Why You Need to Learn to Live More Bitter Free
Let me tell you why addressing the subject of forgiveness, bitterness and anger is so critical to your everyday life—and why you need to keep reading. Allow me to share with you some important reasons as to why you and I need to learn to live a more bitter-free life. 1. We all deal with being […]
What Your Anger Says About You
Everyone faces the issue of anger in their life; whether its anger that lashes out at someone, anger that is pent up inside or anger you wear on your face. Unresolved anger can become a very deadly poison in a person’s life. It can rob them of peace, healthy relationships and can be a leading […]