7 Common Roadblocks to a Life of Rest

We want rest, but we often get held back by some subtle obstacles every day. Here is what I find keeps us from entering into rest on a daily basis.

1. A Hard Heart.

If you feel the Father leading and guiding you, incline your ear to Him. Be willing to face new  areas He may be leading you toward. Is He asking you to face a certain fear or rejection issue? Allow Him to touch your heart at a deeper level. Keep a soft heart before  God is a key to rest.

Allow God to focus on who are, rather than always asking Him about where you are going. People who live in rest focus more on identity and relationship than destination.

2. Unbelief

A heart of unbelief deters the ways of God and gives the enemy’s camp a field day. If you  struggle with seeing an optimistic future with God in it, unbelief is there. Unbelief involves an unwillingness to be convinced.

Unbelief prevents you from walking in what God has for you and  shrouds you in fear and heaviness. It gives a death-blow to hope and is a block to rest (Hebrews 3:12).

3. Not Hanging Around Rest Filled People

To live in rest, you need to find people who manifest that or who are headed there. Get around them and let who they are rub off on you. Many times, we just need to be reminded about our place in rest.

One component to tackling unbelief is being in intimate friendships with others in the body, where we can speak into each others’ lives, exhorting one another daily (Hebrews  3:13). We are children of God with the power of God residing inside of us. He loves us dearly and fiercely and we have all of God’s backing, at  all times. Sometimes we just need to be reminded! Resist the temptation to isolate and ask God to show you one or two people to open up to.  

4. Non-Stop Living

Daily exhorting one another can help to snap us out of negative  spirals and to see the good hope and future God has for us. As  believers under the New Covenant, one of our highest aims is to be  abiding in God’s ongoing presence, His rest and His love even amidst stressful situations. In order to do this, we must begin to make a  conscious and consistent effort to stop, slow down, and take a moment to  meditate on God.

When the enemy wants to take us down with drivenness  and striving, we must cultivate the opposite spirit by intentionally  slowing down, inviting God into our present situation, and meditating on  what He is saying to us for that particular moment. The Word says it is not by might, nor by power, but by My Spirit (Zech 4:6). A great place to  start is meditating on God’s love for you and your love for Him. Practice taking your peace.

5. Too Many Agendas

I find that when I live in the true rest of God, there are a couple priorities that God wants me to focus on. I can immediately tell I am living out of rest when my to do list and agenda piles up sky high. Sometimes I can let achieving goals get the best of me and there is little time for margin.

I have had to learn to stick with the few priorities that heaven has over my life. Those areas will produce the most fruit. The other stuff will be just hay a stubble. I’ve have also learned to love the down times, the stillness and times of the day where there is no agenda but to be in relationship and rest in that.

6. Forgetting What God is Saying

We so easily forget what’s true and important. We leak all the time. I know I do.

The reason that regular meditation on God’s Word is so important is because we need daily reminders to enter into belief that leads us into rest.

Spending regular time remembering God’s Word is crucial, since the Holy Spirit will bring the Word to remembrance; guiding you in your present situations.

God is not interested in doing everything for us, but in partnering with us.  Give up striving or passivity and instead take a time-out to come into agreement with what God is saying for your situation. Then yield to  it. You’ll manifest a steady, sound-minded power that will blow the world away!

7. Impatience

Similarly, we must be patient and gentle with ourselves as  we journey into rest. Be gracious to yourself. Rejoice in even a few  moments of rest initially, knowing that you are on your way to entire  days of rest! Be quick to forgive yourself when you fall out of rest and get back in!

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Mark DeJesus has been equipping people in a full time capacity since 1995, serving in various roles, including, teaching people of all ages, communicating through music, authoring books, leading and mentoring. Mark's deepest love is his family; his wife Melissa, son Maximus and daughter Abigail. Mark is a teacher, author and mentor who uses many communication mediums, including the written word, a weekly radio podcast show and videos. His deepest call involves equipping people to live as overcomers. Through understanding inside out transformation, Mark's message involves getting to the root of issues that contribute to the breakdown of our relationships, our health and our day to day peace. He is passionately reaching his world with a transforming message of love, healing and freedom. Out of their own personal renewal, Mark and Melissa founded Turning Hearts Ministries, a ministry dedicated to inside out transformation. Mark also founded Transformed You, a communication platform for Mark’s teachings, writing and broadcasts that are designed to encourage people in their journey of transformation. Mark and Melissa currently live in Connecticut.

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